Discovery of Sexual Secrets

Thank you for your participation in this survey on the the discovery process for you and your spouse or partner. 'Discovery' refers to the events and time period in which your sexually compulsive behaviors or sexual secrets were 'discovered' by your spouse or partner. For those who were not in a relationship during the discovery period, it may also include new awarenesses or 'discoveries' you made about yourself and your sexual behaviors.

The information will be used to help make professionals and recovering individuals more aware of 'discovery' issues that need to be addressed during recovery.

If you should feel any emotional distress as a result of answering these questions about your relationship experiences, you can find a list of therapists and coaches at, or